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 1. Jesus is definitely the way to go.

2. No, you are not perfect, but you are in good company. No one who has ever lived, is alive now, or will be, except Jesus, is perfect.
3. Yes, it is hard to love Jesus first all the time. We drift, get sidetracked, and have temptations. The important thing is to come back: confess, pray, get on your feet again and Jesus will help you.
4. You can indeed do amazing things through Jesus. He works his power through you.
5. Christians have different views on wine. As I mentioned before, alcohol is not forbidden, drunkenness is. Medical experts say one glass of wine a day for women is a safe amount. Then you would probably not have liver problems. If you cannot stay at that level, then you should give serious thought to drinking at all. Some Christians say if you never drink, you will never become an alcoholic. There is merit to that idea.

It is good to think through life and your values. So many people just go along with the crowd and are astonished at where they wind up. As they say, if you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time. Life should be intentional, even with setbacks and failures.