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In the early days it was common for girls to marry quite young. It is thought that Jesus’ mother, Mary, was a young teenager. But I have no definitive information on that.
“Find different goals and continue.” Is good advice.
The devil and his demons try to lure you away from serving and loving God. Here is the plan to prevent that . James 4:7 submit yourself to God. Resist the devil and he will flee from you.
James is so right about the tongue. We blurt out things that are in our mind without thinking of their affect on our listeners. Once spoken, they cannot be taken back. There are things you may think, but you don’t say.